I just stayed home while all my friends went to the beach and my phone didn’t ring ONCE while they were gone. I could have gone and not missed out on any money.

This makes me very sad.

Skip this post if you don’t want to hear me complaining!! lol

I had a slow day yesterday. I was signed in ALL DAY LONG and pretty much got no calls. On top of that, we’d had a little incident with our hammock on Sunday that resulted in me losing part of my right front tooth. Luckily (if you can say that), I only had to get a small filling to repair it, but still…$200 in dental bills that I didn’t expect and can’t really afford right now.

So I’m sitting at home, hanging out, waiting for my phone to ring and I get a call finally. Here’s how it went:

Me: “Hey there! How are you today?”

Him: “Great. I’m glad we finally got to talk, I’ve been looking forward to it.”

Me (thinking maybe I’d been on his favorites for a long time or something): “Oh really? That’s cool! How long have you been waiting to talk to me?”

Him: “Oh a couple of hours.”

Me: “Ah, ok…well I’m glad you got me then! What are you in the mood for today?”

Him: “I want to choke you with my cock.”

Me (laughing a little bit as I talk): “Well, that’s kinda mean!”

Him: CLICK

Now, I know this “choking a girl with my cock” thing is all the rage these days, but I don’t care. I don’t like choking, period. Do you? I certainly don’t like the concept of someone that I supposedly like enough to want to suck their dick choking me with it on purpose.

I wonder how the choking thing would go over if it were GUYS who were choking on something? Even so, I can’t IMAGINE actually WANTING to choke a guy with my pussy. I don’t understand how looking down and watching someone struggle to hold back from PUKING is a turn on.
If he’d stuck around another few seconds, I would have said something like, “No need for choking, hon. I’ll suck it great without any need for violence,” or something like that. But he hung up.

FUCKING ASSHOLE.

Calls like this really make me hate my job.

So then a little bit later, a guy instant messages me. He asks if I do or watch cam. I say no, I don’t do cam but I do sometimes watch it. He says, “Ok, thanks.” and appears to be done with the conversation.

When I try to clarify whether he’s done talking to me because I don’t DO cam (which is lame as hell since I don’t reference doing cam at all on my website anywhere NOR do I have even ONE cam listing on Niteflirt), he says that it’s because I don’t watch cam all the time.

Um, ok. He doesn’t ask me which circumstances influence whether I will or won’t watch someone on their cam. He doesn’t ask me if I’ll watch HIM on cam. He’s just done talking. So either he’s incredibly stupid because in his mind, if I don’t watch cam ALL THE TIME, I’m not going to watch him and therefore he’s not interested or he’s just incredibly RUDE. Either way, once again, my time is wasted and I’m none the richer for it.

I do relatively few vanilla calls these days and as each day passes, I understand more and more why a lot of women who do phone sex choose to do domination calls only. Then at least if someone says something fucking retarded like they want to choke you with their dick, you can tell them exactly what you think about it.

Maybe after 5 yrs. of being nice, it’s time for me to retire the niceness and bring out the bitchy side of my personality. Maybe then I’d get a little satisfaction out of fucking with the “losers” and assholes that call because I’d get to vent my frustration directly to them instead of having to post about it on my blog.

It’s something to think about, at least!

Erin’s running late, as always. She won’t be here til around 8. Sorry guys.

There’s a new show on the CW called “The Vampire Diaries” and I was SO excited for it to start! I love anything supernatural…witches (Charmed), ghosts (Ghost Whisperer), unexplained phenomenon (X-Files), demons and hell (Supernatural), vampires (True Blood), etc. I read books about these things, watch the movies…just love, love, love anything that’s about people or things that aren’t human. Don’t know why, just always have ever since I can remember.

So my roomies and I got settled in to watch this new show last night and I was SO disappointed! Ugh, it was like a teeny bopper soap opera on steroids. The premise is lame, the actors are adorable but not very good and it’s not even remotely believable that any of them are in high school. WAH! Oh well, I guess you can’t win them all.

So yes, I watch a lot of tv. I do other stuff too though, so I don’t judge myself too harshly for it. Shows are coming back this month and I’m pretty happy about that. I hate having to watch random crap in the summer that I ordinarily wouldn’t.

Last week, Niteflirt emailed me and suspended all of my listings for having my instant message screen names up on my site. They stated that it’s now against the rules to just give them away out in the open, even though I had been told before that it was fine. They changed the rule on me and instead of giving me a head’s up and giving me time to remove it, they just suspended me.

LAME! So I pitched a fit, took them down and fumed for days. They put my listings back up, but it puts a major cramp in my style to be told that I can’t IM with my callers. They said I could give them out, but it was against the rules to use it for anything but watching someone on cam. SAY WHAT?!

Then yesterday, they reversed their decision! YAY!! So I put them back up and invite any of you who would like to contact me on Yahoo or AIM to do so. I’m on Yahoo as sweetienikki4phone and AIM as phoneasweetie.

Now I don’t just talk talk talk all day for free on there and PLEASE don’t fall into the habit of making me respond to you on there before you do a call if I’m signed in because I do not sit at my computer all day long when I’m signed in…but saying hi or asking a question about a call is totally fine!

Also, some of you may have heard rumors about some changes going on at Niteflirt over the next few months as well. It’s true, there are a lot of things going on and though you might not experience much of a disruption, the way flirts like me use the system is going to be REALLY different.

The site will be down for 8-12 hrs. on Monday the 14th, but before that I will send out an email to everyone letting them know what to expect and asking you to help me out with a few things during the “dark time” (as I’m calling it).

I’ll probably post that same message here on my blog. I’ll be available for calls most of the weekend, let’s play!!

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Wow. I’m deliberately not watching any of the media coverage, but I am a little bit in shock that he’s gone. I don’t know if it’s really gonna be one of those “Ooh, where were you when you found out that Michael Jackson died?” kinda things for me, but I have definitely taken note.

So RIP Michael Jackson. I never believed that he was a child molester and I was a fan my entire life.

Moving on, things are going well otherwise! It’s been an entire month since I’ve even spoken to the boy and that is over now finally. I’m just chillin’, hanging with my friends, working outside on our property a lot and working my ass off. I’m thinking about having my site redesigned.

I need to go out sometime soon and buy some camping equipment. Growing up where I did, we did a ton of camping when I was little. Sometimes in the summer, we’d go every other weekend! I’m pretty sure that I’ve only gone once as an adult though. There might be a tiny, two man pop up tent in my garage somewhere, but that’s not gonna cut it.

A giant group of my friends wants to go camping in July, so I need to go get some “stuff” for it. I want a big tent that I can stand up in to change, my own cooler (cause my food won’t be typical “camping” cuisine) and a nice, sturdy, comfy chair with a drink holder, etc. I need my own stash of bug spray and sun screen and who knows what else. Probably a ton of stuff.

So I will probably do that today and work in my garden. It’s INSANE how fast some of the shit is growing. I actually missed an entire crop of spinach and lettuce, it went to seed before I picked it. I thought “oh hey, that will get bigger” and then all of the sudden, it was ruined.

I did eat the first crop of broccoli the other day though. I was so proud of myself! I need to actually Google that, to see how the harvest the rest of it and when I’ll need to replant. I hope it produces a lot more, otherwise it won’t really be worth it. The first harvest was really only one meal. If all 6 plants only produce 2 meals worth of broccoli, that won’t be a very cost effective plant.

Hope you all are having an awesome summer so far! Talk to you all soon!