Life’s actually not been too bad lately. I’ve been hanging out with three different groups of friends, trying to get out and have some fun, ya know?

This week alone, I went to a scary haunted house, on a little road trip with Stella to go pick something up from her friend’s house, to a corn maze (dude, it was HARD, we got SO lost!) and had a group of girlfriends over on Sat. for our really good friend’s birthday. We played games, drank a little bit…it was super fun!

I had someone pay me back some money they owed me, so I’ve been trying to just use that cushion to get me through the tough times on NF and really not stress out about that situation too much. Things seem to be getting a tiny bit better over there. It’s been a few days since I took a call that didn’t show up in my transactions at least.

We still can’t send out emails and stuff and who knows when it will actually be “back” though. They aren’t even updating us anymore and telling us a date. As far as I know, they don’t even expect it to be back up and running 100% anytime this year.

I plan to be here all day, hope some of you are feeling horny and talkative!!

Now they are saying that they will be back on Sunday the 27th. Do I believe that? Nope. Not even close.

They’re letting us take calls on the beta version of the site until then, but it’s very glitchy. I also had a problem with my pay being late, but I’m caught up on that now finally. Thank God. If you want to call me, you can sign in to your Niteflirt account by using http://beta.niteflirt.com but use at your own risk! Some are having problems adding money to their accounts, connecting and reloading mid call.

I’ve been just trying to sit tight and do what little I can to get some really good regular to help me out, but I’m kind of out of options. So, if you call me and want to call again, I’d appreciate it if you’d try the beta site or send me an IM and we’ll see what we can do.

In other news, I hung out again with that chick I met a couple of weeks ago! We’ve been texting a LOT…it’s funny, my roomie keeps teasing me cause it’s like she’s my new instant BFF. She came over night before last and just hung out for a bit and we’re planning to go out on the town together on Friday. I can’t wait!

My roomies and I have decided to have a Halloween party this year too. We’ve had them before and they’ve always been pretty fun, but I want this one to be EPIC! We’re going to invite a lot more people and let them just spread the word. I have no idea what I want to be, but the costumes seem to be getting better and better every year. Here are some that I found that have real potential! Adorable, aren’t they?

I thought this would happen. Niteflirt said they’d be down for 12 hrs. and lo and behold…they’re down for 39 and counting. They say they’ll be back up at 6 pm PST today, but who knows if that’s actually going to happen. They could get to 5:59 and then say “Oh, oops, we won’t be back up til midnight!”

I’m afraid that this is only the first in a long line of deadlines they miss by a mile. Honestly, I’m not worried about putting on a brave face for my customers and acting like nothing’s wrong. One of the main things my callers tell me they like so much about me is that I’m not fake. I tell it like it is. If I’m having a bad day, I say I’m having a bad day. If I’m freaked out about something, I’m gonna say it.

However, I have a pretty fun life and if something fun is going on, I talk about that too!

All that said, I’m not leaving Niteflirt. They are still by and far the best solution out there for what I do. They’re secure, pay on time and lately I’ve been optimistic about the future there. I’m disappointed that they have been down for so long when they said only 12 hrs., but hopefully it will be worth it to be on a new platform that’s glitch free. Not to mention the fact that they say we’ll be getting NEW features eventually. The thought that we might be able to SMS text our clients sometime in the future makes my whole body tingle.

I sent out an email telling you all how you can help during the next few months while us flirts are without a lot of the features we’ve grown to rely on. I’ll post it here as well because these are things that will help ANY flirt. I’m sure a lot of you will be wanting to help the girls you call regularly.

1. If it’s been more than 30 days since you’ve contacted a flirt, instead of using your “favorites” list, surf to their listing from the main page of Niteflirt. You might have to go kinda deep, since we don’t know where our listings will show up, but don’t sort by “highest rated”. Stay in that main list that it defaults to and just look for them. It’s complicated to explain why this will help, but it will.

2. Leave feedback. A lot of flirts have stopped caring about ratings, but having points does help when there are guys who sort by “highest rated.”

3. CALL! Some flirts might be experiencing a slow down because they’re no longer able to affect their positioning in the lists. Just giving them your business will help. If you don’t tip, think about starting? Even a few dollars will be appreciated.

4. Share your creativity! Have an idea for something you think your favorite flirt could sell to her clients? Email her and ask her to do it!

5. A lot of us will be marketing ourselves in new venues. If a flirt has a top site link on her site, click it and VOTE for her!

I hope those were some useful suggestions. End of depressing business talk! hah

In other news, I started talking to Erin again recently. I’d stopped talking to her altogether back in April, after six months of scant contact and canceling on me multiple times, I just told her to forget it. Then the other day, I texted her in a little fit of anger and she called me. She’s really not doing too well.

I ended up flying to Portland on Saturday to go see her and help her out. She’s still with her douchebag of a boyfriend (god, that guy is a loser), and their lives are not going smoothly right now. It’s possible that we’ll be doing 2 girl calls again here sometime soon. That was SO much fun, I can’t wait to do it again.

We didn’t sleep together when I went up there, but I’m sure we would if she came down here alone. What her man doesn’t know won’t hurt him!

Erin’s kinda old news though. Remember that girl I said I had a huge crush on and was going to see at a party the day after I met her? I didn’t end up seeing her the next day because I didn’t go (turns out she didn’t either), but I came across an opportunity to contact her yesterday so I did! I asked our mutual friend for her number and called her. We’re going on a double date this weekend! YAY!!

I don’t really know if she’s into girls, but she saw me kiss a girl, so she knows that *I* am at least. I mean, I think she was into me, we hung out a lot that night…but my gaydar might be off, ya know? I guess we’ll see! Wouldn’t it be funny if we went on a double date and the two GIRLS ended up hooking up?

We’re supposed to go hot tubbing after the date…mmm I can’t wait to see her in a bikini!! YUM!

Ok, I’m off to get some stuff done around the house. Keep your fingers crossed that Niteflirt comes back up at 6 pm! I’ve been having withdrawals and I know a lot of you have too!

Ok, so I’m totally drunk right now, but I went out tonight for the first time in months and I met a girl! I made out with another girl, but that was just for fun. I met another girl that was awesome! She was totally cute, into me and way amazing. I’m gonna see her again tomorrow at another party and I can’t wait!

It’s been awhile since I’ve been this excited about anyone. I hope you all are excited for me too!

Hey everyone! Hope you had an awesome Fourth of July weekend! How cool is it that it fell on a Saturday this year? I had a great time, had some friends over, watched everyone get totally shit faced drunk and set off fireworks. Good times!

I got a puppy on Saturday! She’s so cute, only 9 wks. old!! She has fleas though, I woke up this morning covered in flea bites (sexy, huh?) so I have to go get her some flea shampoo. She’s been doing great with potty training, she’s a little genius. She looks just like a dog I had when I was growing up. Can’t wait to see if she’s as cool as he was!

I’m off to go shopping in a few minutes. I’m going camping this weekend with some friends and I need EVERYTHING. Feel like tippin’ me so I can take this time off and not have my bottom line suffer?

Wish me luck not forgetting something. Don’t you hate that? You get out there in the middle of nowhere and you’re like “Fuck, I forgot my swim suit!” haha Hopefully I will remember everything. I’d rather be over prepared than underprepared. I don’t even know where we’re going yet, everyone else is in charge of that stuff.

Alright, just wanted to post real fast so you all know that I’m still alive and kickin’. Anyone else SUPER excited for Harry Potter next week?

Talk to you soon!