Geez, it’s really been a week since I posted? I remember back when I used to post pretty much every single day. I did it for a long time, even if I just had silly little stuff to post. I guess my clientele has changed so much that I just don’t even think that most of my callers are reading this blog very often….so I don’t update it as much. Kinda sad, really. I used to love writing in here.

Anyway, my visit with Erin really couldn’t have gone any better once she finally got here. We were HELLA busy on the phones and she made even more than she expected to. We went to lunch with some friends she hadn’t seen in a long time, did a little shopping and took calls. It was nice just to spend time together. And it was fun to “play” too, since it had been over a year since we had.

Her douchebag bf kept bothering us, all insecure about the fact that she was here and stuff even though he’d given his ok. Apparently he changed his mind, but it was too late once she was already here. Plus, even if she had wanted to just go back to make him feel better, they needed the money.

I hope she’ll come back soon, maybe those of you who missed us cause we were so busy this last time around will get a chance to call next time! Maybe around Christmas?

In other news, we had a kick ASS Halloween party that I forgot to mention. God, it was so great. Me and five of our friends did ecstasy and everyone else was just drinking and smoking out of our 5 ft. bong haha! There were no fights, no SEX (weird, huh?) and it was just the best party ever. The pills we took were OUT OF THIS WORLD though, we were all up til around noon the next day. I didn’t really go to sleep til around 11 the next night.

Then it was my bro-in-law’s birthday on Sunday and we all hung out and played poker. I’ve been spending a lot of time lately with different friends since I’m so single and it’s actually been a great time.

Speaking of new friends, I’m going out Friday night with Stella and some of her friends. I might actually try to hook up with a guy that night! I mean, it’s been awhile for me and I’m not seeing the boy anymore. I guess we’ll see if I meet anyone interesting.

My roomies are gone now so I have the whole house to myself! Anyone wanna play? I can be as loud as I want!

Erin’s running late, as always. She won’t be here til around 8. Sorry guys.

I sent out an email to everyone I had on my lists yesterday, but I know that new guys aren’t on there yet so I’m posting here too.

Erin’s on her way! She’ll be staying a couple of days and we’ll be doing 2 girl calls together. It’s been over a year since we’ve done any and I’m really excited to see her and get back on the phones together.

These calls are $2.50/min. and we would really love to hear from you! I’ll post again when she gets here and we’ll be on Yahoo as sweetienikki4phone too!

I thought this would happen. Niteflirt said they’d be down for 12 hrs. and lo and behold…they’re down for 39 and counting. They say they’ll be back up at 6 pm PST today, but who knows if that’s actually going to happen. They could get to 5:59 and then say “Oh, oops, we won’t be back up til midnight!”

I’m afraid that this is only the first in a long line of deadlines they miss by a mile. Honestly, I’m not worried about putting on a brave face for my customers and acting like nothing’s wrong. One of the main things my callers tell me they like so much about me is that I’m not fake. I tell it like it is. If I’m having a bad day, I say I’m having a bad day. If I’m freaked out about something, I’m gonna say it.

However, I have a pretty fun life and if something fun is going on, I talk about that too!

All that said, I’m not leaving Niteflirt. They are still by and far the best solution out there for what I do. They’re secure, pay on time and lately I’ve been optimistic about the future there. I’m disappointed that they have been down for so long when they said only 12 hrs., but hopefully it will be worth it to be on a new platform that’s glitch free. Not to mention the fact that they say we’ll be getting NEW features eventually. The thought that we might be able to SMS text our clients sometime in the future makes my whole body tingle.

I sent out an email telling you all how you can help during the next few months while us flirts are without a lot of the features we’ve grown to rely on. I’ll post it here as well because these are things that will help ANY flirt. I’m sure a lot of you will be wanting to help the girls you call regularly.

1. If it’s been more than 30 days since you’ve contacted a flirt, instead of using your “favorites” list, surf to their listing from the main page of Niteflirt. You might have to go kinda deep, since we don’t know where our listings will show up, but don’t sort by “highest rated”. Stay in that main list that it defaults to and just look for them. It’s complicated to explain why this will help, but it will.

2. Leave feedback. A lot of flirts have stopped caring about ratings, but having points does help when there are guys who sort by “highest rated.”

3. CALL! Some flirts might be experiencing a slow down because they’re no longer able to affect their positioning in the lists. Just giving them your business will help. If you don’t tip, think about starting? Even a few dollars will be appreciated.

4. Share your creativity! Have an idea for something you think your favorite flirt could sell to her clients? Email her and ask her to do it!

5. A lot of us will be marketing ourselves in new venues. If a flirt has a top site link on her site, click it and VOTE for her!

I hope those were some useful suggestions. End of depressing business talk! hah

In other news, I started talking to Erin again recently. I’d stopped talking to her altogether back in April, after six months of scant contact and canceling on me multiple times, I just told her to forget it. Then the other day, I texted her in a little fit of anger and she called me. She’s really not doing too well.

I ended up flying to Portland on Saturday to go see her and help her out. She’s still with her douchebag of a boyfriend (god, that guy is a loser), and their lives are not going smoothly right now. It’s possible that we’ll be doing 2 girl calls again here sometime soon. That was SO much fun, I can’t wait to do it again.

We didn’t sleep together when I went up there, but I’m sure we would if she came down here alone. What her man doesn’t know won’t hurt him!

Erin’s kinda old news though. Remember that girl I said I had a huge crush on and was going to see at a party the day after I met her? I didn’t end up seeing her the next day because I didn’t go (turns out she didn’t either), but I came across an opportunity to contact her yesterday so I did! I asked our mutual friend for her number and called her. We’re going on a double date this weekend! YAY!!

I don’t really know if she’s into girls, but she saw me kiss a girl, so she knows that *I* am at least. I mean, I think she was into me, we hung out a lot that night…but my gaydar might be off, ya know? I guess we’ll see! Wouldn’t it be funny if we went on a double date and the two GIRLS ended up hooking up?

We’re supposed to go hot tubbing after the date…mmm I can’t wait to see her in a bikini!! YUM!

Ok, I’m off to get some stuff done around the house. Keep your fingers crossed that Niteflirt comes back up at 6 pm! I’ve been having withdrawals and I know a lot of you have too!

As most of you know, Erin (my ex girlfriend of three years and best friend of over 10) and I broke up last Sept. or so. She started dating a new guy and immediately just fell into the relationship so hard that we didn’t even talk. We argued every few weeks about how she dropped our friendship and she promised she would do better and then never did.

I called her a month ago and she didn’t call me back. Two days after I left her a message, she Myspace’d me and I went OFF on her for doing that. We hadn’t talked since then. She called me two nights ago because I texted her something and again, her new man was right there, listening to everything she was saying and butting into the conversation. She asked me then if she could call me yesterday and then she didn’t.

She did call me today though and we talked for a couple of hours. She’s engaged.

Yeah, I was floored. She hasn’t even been dating this guy for 6 months yet. They’re moving in together at the end of this month. I’m still really angry with her for dropping me like that, acting like I don’t matter to her anymore. Even if we weren’t “together” anymore, we were still friends. She says I’ll always be her best friend, blah blah, but words don’t really mean anything to me…actions do.

So we’ll see what happens. I can’t exactly be happy for her, I really don’t like the guy. Her fault for only telling me bad stuff about him though, really. The one time I did see him, he looked like he’d just finished a stint living on the streets and he was rude and standoffish. My friends thought he looked like a bum too. None of her family likes him, they think she can do better. They think he’s kinda dumb and that she’s just settling because she’s been single so long.

She says she realizes that she’s been stupid for not maintaining her friendships and like I said, we’ll see what happens. I don’t really believe that it bothers her that much…when she has a man, she doesn’t need anyone else.

In other news, I’m going out to dinner with my roomies later but should be on and taking calls otherwise. I’m on the second page of Phone Sex Central too! Please vote for me using the link below so I can stay on page 2 at least until it resets tomorrow night! Thanks so much for voting for me and helping me get to where I am (you know who you are).

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