Hope you all had a great New Year! I just went to a chill house party with some friends and had a good, relaxing time. We all went out to a good dinner and then went back to the house and drank a little bit, played Wii and then rang in the new year with kisses all around.

Special THANKS to the boys who sent me gift cards on Christmas Day. So sweet and so unexpected! It was really great to see that.

Has everyone seen “Avatar” already? I saw it in IMAX 3D and absolutely fucking LOVED IT! I 100% recommend going to see it in the theater, especially in IMAX if you can. I want a tail! Wouldn’t that be cool, to have a tail? I’m down with tails, all the way down. hahaha

So here’s to a great 2010! Call me so we can compare resolutions and years to date!

Geez, it’s really been a week since I posted? I remember back when I used to post pretty much every single day. I did it for a long time, even if I just had silly little stuff to post. I guess my clientele has changed so much that I just don’t even think that most of my callers are reading this blog very often….so I don’t update it as much. Kinda sad, really. I used to love writing in here.

Anyway, my visit with Erin really couldn’t have gone any better once she finally got here. We were HELLA busy on the phones and she made even more than she expected to. We went to lunch with some friends she hadn’t seen in a long time, did a little shopping and took calls. It was nice just to spend time together. And it was fun to “play” too, since it had been over a year since we had.

Her douchebag bf kept bothering us, all insecure about the fact that she was here and stuff even though he’d given his ok. Apparently he changed his mind, but it was too late once she was already here. Plus, even if she had wanted to just go back to make him feel better, they needed the money.

I hope she’ll come back soon, maybe those of you who missed us cause we were so busy this last time around will get a chance to call next time! Maybe around Christmas?

In other news, we had a kick ASS Halloween party that I forgot to mention. God, it was so great. Me and five of our friends did ecstasy and everyone else was just drinking and smoking out of our 5 ft. bong haha! There were no fights, no SEX (weird, huh?) and it was just the best party ever. The pills we took were OUT OF THIS WORLD though, we were all up til around noon the next day. I didn’t really go to sleep til around 11 the next night.

Then it was my bro-in-law’s birthday on Sunday and we all hung out and played poker. I’ve been spending a lot of time lately with different friends since I’m so single and it’s actually been a great time.

Speaking of new friends, I’m going out Friday night with Stella and some of her friends. I might actually try to hook up with a guy that night! I mean, it’s been awhile for me and I’m not seeing the boy anymore. I guess we’ll see if I meet anyone interesting.

My roomies are gone now so I have the whole house to myself! Anyone wanna play? I can be as loud as I want!

I thought this would happen. Niteflirt said they’d be down for 12 hrs. and lo and behold…they’re down for 39 and counting. They say they’ll be back up at 6 pm PST today, but who knows if that’s actually going to happen. They could get to 5:59 and then say “Oh, oops, we won’t be back up til midnight!”

I’m afraid that this is only the first in a long line of deadlines they miss by a mile. Honestly, I’m not worried about putting on a brave face for my customers and acting like nothing’s wrong. One of the main things my callers tell me they like so much about me is that I’m not fake. I tell it like it is. If I’m having a bad day, I say I’m having a bad day. If I’m freaked out about something, I’m gonna say it.

However, I have a pretty fun life and if something fun is going on, I talk about that too!

All that said, I’m not leaving Niteflirt. They are still by and far the best solution out there for what I do. They’re secure, pay on time and lately I’ve been optimistic about the future there. I’m disappointed that they have been down for so long when they said only 12 hrs., but hopefully it will be worth it to be on a new platform that’s glitch free. Not to mention the fact that they say we’ll be getting NEW features eventually. The thought that we might be able to SMS text our clients sometime in the future makes my whole body tingle.

I sent out an email telling you all how you can help during the next few months while us flirts are without a lot of the features we’ve grown to rely on. I’ll post it here as well because these are things that will help ANY flirt. I’m sure a lot of you will be wanting to help the girls you call regularly.

1. If it’s been more than 30 days since you’ve contacted a flirt, instead of using your “favorites” list, surf to their listing from the main page of Niteflirt. You might have to go kinda deep, since we don’t know where our listings will show up, but don’t sort by “highest rated”. Stay in that main list that it defaults to and just look for them. It’s complicated to explain why this will help, but it will.

2. Leave feedback. A lot of flirts have stopped caring about ratings, but having points does help when there are guys who sort by “highest rated.”

3. CALL! Some flirts might be experiencing a slow down because they’re no longer able to affect their positioning in the lists. Just giving them your business will help. If you don’t tip, think about starting? Even a few dollars will be appreciated.

4. Share your creativity! Have an idea for something you think your favorite flirt could sell to her clients? Email her and ask her to do it!

5. A lot of us will be marketing ourselves in new venues. If a flirt has a top site link on her site, click it and VOTE for her!

I hope those were some useful suggestions. End of depressing business talk! hah

In other news, I started talking to Erin again recently. I’d stopped talking to her altogether back in April, after six months of scant contact and canceling on me multiple times, I just told her to forget it. Then the other day, I texted her in a little fit of anger and she called me. She’s really not doing too well.

I ended up flying to Portland on Saturday to go see her and help her out. She’s still with her douchebag of a boyfriend (god, that guy is a loser), and their lives are not going smoothly right now. It’s possible that we’ll be doing 2 girl calls again here sometime soon. That was SO much fun, I can’t wait to do it again.

We didn’t sleep together when I went up there, but I’m sure we would if she came down here alone. What her man doesn’t know won’t hurt him!

Erin’s kinda old news though. Remember that girl I said I had a huge crush on and was going to see at a party the day after I met her? I didn’t end up seeing her the next day because I didn’t go (turns out she didn’t either), but I came across an opportunity to contact her yesterday so I did! I asked our mutual friend for her number and called her. We’re going on a double date this weekend! YAY!!

I don’t really know if she’s into girls, but she saw me kiss a girl, so she knows that *I* am at least. I mean, I think she was into me, we hung out a lot that night…but my gaydar might be off, ya know? I guess we’ll see! Wouldn’t it be funny if we went on a double date and the two GIRLS ended up hooking up?

We’re supposed to go hot tubbing after the date…mmm I can’t wait to see her in a bikini!! YUM!

Ok, I’m off to get some stuff done around the house. Keep your fingers crossed that Niteflirt comes back up at 6 pm! I’ve been having withdrawals and I know a lot of you have too!

There’s a new show on the CW called “The Vampire Diaries” and I was SO excited for it to start! I love anything supernatural…witches (Charmed), ghosts (Ghost Whisperer), unexplained phenomenon (X-Files), demons and hell (Supernatural), vampires (True Blood), etc. I read books about these things, watch the movies…just love, love, love anything that’s about people or things that aren’t human. Don’t know why, just always have ever since I can remember.

So my roomies and I got settled in to watch this new show last night and I was SO disappointed! Ugh, it was like a teeny bopper soap opera on steroids. The premise is lame, the actors are adorable but not very good and it’s not even remotely believable that any of them are in high school. WAH! Oh well, I guess you can’t win them all.

So yes, I watch a lot of tv. I do other stuff too though, so I don’t judge myself too harshly for it. Shows are coming back this month and I’m pretty happy about that. I hate having to watch random crap in the summer that I ordinarily wouldn’t.

Last week, Niteflirt emailed me and suspended all of my listings for having my instant message screen names up on my site. They stated that it’s now against the rules to just give them away out in the open, even though I had been told before that it was fine. They changed the rule on me and instead of giving me a head’s up and giving me time to remove it, they just suspended me.

LAME! So I pitched a fit, took them down and fumed for days. They put my listings back up, but it puts a major cramp in my style to be told that I can’t IM with my callers. They said I could give them out, but it was against the rules to use it for anything but watching someone on cam. SAY WHAT?!

Then yesterday, they reversed their decision! YAY!! So I put them back up and invite any of you who would like to contact me on Yahoo or AIM to do so. I’m on Yahoo as sweetienikki4phone and AIM as phoneasweetie.

Now I don’t just talk talk talk all day for free on there and PLEASE don’t fall into the habit of making me respond to you on there before you do a call if I’m signed in because I do not sit at my computer all day long when I’m signed in…but saying hi or asking a question about a call is totally fine!

Also, some of you may have heard rumors about some changes going on at Niteflirt over the next few months as well. It’s true, there are a lot of things going on and though you might not experience much of a disruption, the way flirts like me use the system is going to be REALLY different.

The site will be down for 8-12 hrs. on Monday the 14th, but before that I will send out an email to everyone letting them know what to expect and asking you to help me out with a few things during the “dark time” (as I’m calling it).

I’ll probably post that same message here on my blog. I’ll be available for calls most of the weekend, let’s play!!

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One of my roomie’s ex boyfriend’s is now a pretty good friend of ours. He has been helping with our kitchen renovation and he and his girlfriend have been hanging out with us here at the house quite a bit lately. A couple of months ago, he told us about a girl he’d hooked up with for a couple of weeks getting pregnant and then having an abortion. Well, he told us because one of his friends saw her walking around a month ago all pregnant still.

When they’d been hanging out, he’d known her last name but had forgotten it. After asking around a few places, he finally figured it out and we looked her up on myspace. Yep, she had a baby two weeks ago! His mom immediately messaged her and was told that yes, the baby was his and she’d lied because she wanted a stress free pregnancy.

Our friend can be kind of a dick, so we all understood why. She brought the baby to his mom’s house yesterday and we went over there to meet her and say hi and stuff. The baby is adorable!! I love babies and I went a bit nuts buying clothes and stuff before we went over. I especially love buying girl clothes.

He hadn’t told his current girlfriend yet that she’d had the baby for sure (though she knew about the rumor that she was still pregnant), so he told her yesterday and they fought about it all night. DRAMA!

Anyway, that was kinda fun. Surprise!

I’ve just been having a laid back summer, hanging out with friends, etc. I took two WHOLE days off yesterday and the day before, so I plan to be on and available for calls for the next few days without interruption. That’s the plan anyway.

Who wants to play?