Niteflirt has forums where the flirts talk to each other. I participate in them. I think it’s fun to talk to other girls who do the same thing that I do. We talk about our websites, software, calls, call volume, Niteflirt issues, movies, etc.! Most of the time it’s pretty peaceful.
Then there are times like today! Recently there’s been a lot of discussion about how financial domination listings seem to be dominating the front page of featured listings and how guys who are new to the site might be getting the wrong impression about what’s offered. The girl who started the thread also complained that recently she’s been having a hard time converting the traffic that she gets to her listing, even though she changes it frequently.
Well, the conversation eventually led around to how some girls will hang up on guys or block guys they don’t like talking to. Here’s what one woman said about the subject:
“In 5 years of being a phone sex operator (as well as a full-time Pro Domme), I have never ever once hung up on a guy, no matter what they say to me. I am never offended by anything. Perhaps, your anger is impeding your ability to do this job.”
“When he writes in his comments that you were rude and hung up on him and then other guys don’t call, remember that guys are NOT stupid and if you hang out a shingle that you’re a PSO, it’s NOT up to them to amuse you. You’re the entertainment and they pay for it.”
“A man could call me and insult me verbally if he chose to as long as he pays, and I earn, what difference does it make?”
I bet my callers know which side I took!! lol I vigorously disagreed with her. Now, I don’t make a habit of hanging up on guys or blocking guys for being mildly annoying.
That said, I LOVE my job with a passion. I think it’s awesome and I’m grateful every day for so many aspects of it, it’s not even funny. Even on days when I complain about a weird call or have had a slow day (which I realize for a lot of PSOs would still be a good day), I love it.
The thing is, I want it to stay that way. If I made myself stay on the line with every asshole who called me and was being a jerk or every guy who listened to me go all out with everything I had for half an hour without even barely grunting or seeming to enjoy himself or every guy who wouldn’t take no for an answer when I told him sorry, I can’t pretend to fuck my uncle, I would hate this job in a very short period of time.
So yeah, the callers aren’t there to entertain me, I get that. But we have choices. If you’re a secretary and your boss is making you suck his cock, you have the choice to accept that or quit (or sue). If you’re a shop owner and some jerk comes in and starts rearranging the merchandise and calling you a bitch, you have the right to refuse service.
I reserve that same right!
Fortunately, I’m in the position where doing so every once in awhile isn’t going to hurt my bottom line. I’m not complaining about call volume while slamming the phone down on 1/3 of my callers. And yeah, you should probably be a bit more tolerant of guys if you are hurting for the cash…but for God’s sake, it’s not career suicide to make these choices. Some of us have the luxury to be able to.
I was quite offended that that woman and a few other flirts, seemed to think that I was mentally challenged because I would dare to hang up on a caller. Or implied that I’m giving bad service.
I’m sorry, but that’s just not the case. Any of them can read my feedback, which truthfully is just about the best of any girl on Niteflirt (I get people emailing me all the time who say that, callers and flirts alike), and see that that’s not true.
I’m actually one of the few phone sex girls who REALLY gets off with her callers! Does anyone know how rare that really is? Apparently my callers do, since the vast majority of my calls every day are from guys who have called me before.
So, I felt like ranting a bit in here about the subject. I said my piece in that thread as well, but I felt like sharing here as well. Feel free to comment and let me know what you think!
(btw, I hung up on a guy last night who kept hitting his dick on the phone and was jumping topics every 5 mins. He drove me NUTS and I finally gave up and went to bed. I don’t feel bad about it. hahaha)
I’ll be on in a little bit and I’m all worked up, so someone needs to fuck me and calm me down!! lol